tell me people, am i going insane?

one works 3+ years as a programmer.
programming.
every day. at least workday.
at weekends off, sleeping, going out. doing the house stuff that needs to be done.
every week the same.
not much leisure time left, as one is working now.

which topics to talk about are still remaining? when one meets other people?
where can you link into a topic, if it isnt a computers topic? and even there specialiced ones.

is this the same for every job?
is one unavoidibly becoming a lame freak?